You are going to die

Death is a scary topic. Few of us want to spend time thinking about our own mortality or that of our loved ones. I'd like to propose a positive reframing of this topic.

Those who know me know that I am consistently optimistic and motivated. I do my best to promote a message of truth and hope, and to uplift and empower people.

A major reason for my motivation is I do think about death often. I am deeply in tune with my mortality and the fact that I am going to die one day. So will everybody that I love, know, and have ever interacted with.

We are all going to die.

This is perhaps the ultimate uncomfortable truth, but it’s one I find highly motivating. Let me explain.

Being aware that I am mortal and will eventually die motivates me to fulfil my mission every day. Lord willing, I have many more decades on this earth, but it is not guaranteed.

I have family members and friends who died in their 20s, 30s, or 40s. There are millions of children worldwide who won’t even make it to adulthood.

I look after my health and do not unreasonably put my life at risk. But the fact remains, I do not know when I will die. None of us do.

So, while I am here and I am healthy, why wouldn’t I make the most of it?

Why wouldn’t I pursue my dreams to the best of my ability?

Why would I procrastinate, knowing tomorrow is not promised?

This is not a call to selfishness, nihilism, or hedonism (YOLO!). It is a warning against malaise and complacency.

Many people claim to struggle with ‘motivation’, yet they spend their days, weeks, and years as if they are infinite. They are not.

“I am going to die."

Think about that sentence and internalise it. You will quickly realise that life is precious, and your limited time here on Earth should not be squandered.

Don’t waste any more days. Memento mori.